Where Are They Now? — Melinda Bradshaw (Garrett)


Getting to today has taken longer than it took us to get to high school graduation but it sure seems to have arrived much sooner. The last 20 years have been good to me, although after reading this you may not think so.

I left the halls of Provo High to attend BYU for a semester or two, until I hit the chemistry needed for nursing (if you remember that my dad was a chemistry professor this part can seem kind of humorous). Rather than have him tutor me and help me get through I decided to quit and go to travel school. At that point 3 months to get my certificate seemed much better then the 4 years of college.

I moved to Seattle and became a corporate travel agent. That's where I met my first husband. Little did I know that when you all voted me most likely to get married right out of high school that it would have the energizer bunny effect. Anyway, we were married for three years, just long enough for me to figure out that I real ly did want to be a nurse so I went back to school and got my LPN. During this time I met and married my second husband. We were together for 5 years, married for 1 and then divorced.

A few years later I kind of maxed out on the things that an LPN can do and decided to go back for my RN. During that time I met and married my third husband. I graduated with my associates RN in 2001 and have been very happy that I chose to get my degree.

About a year after I graduated my husband and I decided to part ways and so, once again I was on my own. Shortly after that my family found out that my mother had Alzheimer's so I spent a lot of time during the next years taking care of her until she passed away in 2005.

I have worked in long term care, rehab, hospice, OB, labor & delivery, offices, clinics, surgery and now own my own business as a legal nurse consultant. That means that I work with malpractice attorneys who are looking at medical malpractice cases. It's really interesting and gives a view of nursing that I don't think can be obtained anywhere else.

Three years ago I met my current husband and, believe it or not, he's the one I was looking for the whole time. I know, I know, just call me Liz Taylor. =D We are currently in the middle of the application process to find out if I will be accepted in to the Navy Nurse Corps. It's a long explanation but if you are interested, ask me at they reunion as to why I am doing Navy at this point in my life. I should know for sure whether or not I have been selected by the time the reunion comes around so I can fill you in then.

No, I don't have children. No, I don't regret any of my life experiences because they have made me who I am today. Yes, a lot of those experiences were painful but, looking back, definitely worth it. I am really looking forward to seeing everyone that can make it. I also recognize that two days is just not enough time to catch up so thank heavens for e mail.

See you soon!

Melinda (Bradshaw) Garrett


Comments

Anonymous said…
Melinda I am sorry to read that your mother passed away. You have had quite the life, but I'm glad you've found true happiness now. Good luck with the Navy, I joined the Army in 2001 so I can't blame you for wanting to go in. Sorry I won't be able to catch up with at the reunion since I won't be there, but would love to hear about your Navy career. OSULady36@aol.com
Anonymous said…
Wow! Best of luck to you. Sorry about your mom!
Anonymous said…
Hey girlie it's good to see you got your stuff together and re-typed your blog :) Now we all need to see your beautiful shining face-because after all I didnt even recognize you as a blond! I know I've said this a million times, but thanks for caring about me, and you know what I mean...Jill
Anonymous said…
Hey Melinda,

What a coincidence that we are in the same field, when there aren't that many of us out there. We'll have to talk at the reunion. You look great and very happy!
Cheryl (Gardner)Armstrong
Sheryl said…
Melinda,

I was so fun to see you in April. It will be great to see you again at the reunion. You look soooooo good. I am so glad you are so happy now. You deserve it. See you soon.
stacie said…
Hi Melinda, It's Stacie Timms Haddock! I saw Peter Uluave (sp?) at Costco today and he told me about this website. I was so excited to see you. Sorry we lost contact a few years back. Love your hair. Call or e-mail me. Love ya!
Jenn said…
Melinda--
I was sad to hear about your mothers death. I know that the time you spent with her meant a lot to her and your dad. He would let me know how things were going.
I think that my mom just this last year got rid of that little tree house. funny the things that we remember....
Jenn
Anonymous said…
You look great! Thanks for tracking me down. It was great to talk to you. I can't believe it had been about 10 years since we had last gotten together. Sounds like life is good. Some of my best memories of my first year at BYU was spending the weekends at your parents condo in Zion's. It is still one of my favorite places in the world. We go as a family often. Take care and keep in touch. Jennifer Whittaker (Patterson)
Anonymous said…
Hi Mel!
I didn't even recognize you with the blonde hair... love it!
I have missed exchanging Christmas cards with you.
I was so sorry to hear about your mom... she was such a great lady! I will never forget her sugar cookies!
I am so glad to see that things are going well for you.
We certainly had some fun times together from the halls of Wasatch to PHS. Your friendship means a lot to me.
I can't wait for you to meet my kids...
and as for my boys, I love having boys. My parents really missed out.
My Parents are great. They are living in St. George and have a home here in Santaquin so that they can come visit us.
Tiffany and her family live here in Santaquin as well. She has 2 girls and 2 boys. She has a little girl with down syndrome who is our little sunshine.
Melissa is living in Cedar Hills. She recently moved back to Utah County from Boise, Idaho. She has 2 boys and 1 girl.
Tracy is living in Texas. She is still Tracy... She has 2 girls and 1 boy.
I could go on and on... can't wait to catch up at the reunion.
Love ya!
Anonymous said…
First of all I've never been scared that Craig Anderson would beat me up! He did it multiple times per day so it became part of life for me. :) Glad to hear about your life Melinda. Good luck with your future endeavors. It's funny, so many of these posts not only bring back memories of High School, but they sure bring a flood of memories from grade school too. I think many of us knew one another since the kissing tag days in kindergaten. Hope to see you.
Anonymous said…
Great to hear from you! The man in the picture with you looks an awful lot like Shane Killian, but with hair.

I look forward to catching up at the reunion!
Dan said…
I think he looks like Jason Thelin with a hint of Shane mixed in there.
Anonymous said…
I know I sent you an email telling you how fantastic you look, but I was just scrolling through posts again, and was struck again by how great you look. Loved your honest and refreshing account of your life. It will be good to see you!
Anonymous said…
Melinda, your blonde hair is so beautiful! You look amazing and i loved reading about your life--congrats on all you've accomplished!!
Anonymous said…
Melinda,

Great memories of Oak Hills for sure. I still think it was more of a liability to be the only boy in a sea of girls...only too late to realize that might have been a good thing in retrospect. It's great to read what you've been up to and hope to see you soon!

Howard
Anonymous said…
Melinda - What a story. You were always a lot of fun and good for a crazy story. My mom passed away also at age 46- never easy. I am looking forward to seeing you and that blonde hair and that Jason Thelin look alike that you married. Great memories.

Take care
Jayson Clements
Anonymous said…
Okay, okay! I'm coming to the reunion. Can't wait to see you!
Unknown said…
Melinda,
I'm with Marvin Dean. Reading your post made me think back to good old Wasatch school. Do you remember the principle Mr. Edenfield I think. He was the one who always wore his pants up to his chest. Fun days.
Best,
Lois Decker (Brown)
Anonymous said…
Hey Melinda,
Thanks for all of the nice things you said on my post - you look fabulous as a blonde and yes, gravity has been nice so far!!
Erica Jarman Jenks
Anonymous said…
You had better keep intouch! Thanks for getting me to the reunion. I had a great time. I love the blonde hair! Jennifer Whittaker Patterson

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